As part of my response to the sudden “closure” of the Soho Masses, I’ve been writing extensively about the need to do more than simply move our existing congregation from Warwick Street to Farm Street. There is a dire need for far more extensive and effective ministry in many more parishes, more parts of the country, and to people that cannot be reached in the context of existing ministries. I asked my readers recently, “What Are YOU Doing, to Promote LGBT Ministry?” . Although the context for putting the question was a British one, and specifically for the Westminster diocese, the question is in fact relevant, wherever you are. (I will shortly be writing more on my own personal response to the challenge, outlining my plans for “Next Steps Ministries“).
Meanwhile, a reader (“William from Philadelphia”) has replied with one concrete, simple suggestion that is available to all Catholics, anywhere: write to the Pope.
I have recently started following your blog and have really been fascinated about your posts, and of course your courageous faith to help bring about necessary changes in church for our fellow LGBT faithful. I was just wondering if you have heard of any movement to address the Pope directly in terms of our causes. Is there a way for lay people to send letters to the Pope directly?
When I read about the Pope’s annual Christmas message I just thought, can’t we just tell him directly how hurtful his words are, and how many Catholics have been and are continually are getting turned off by such messages, causing many to leave the Church. I thought maybe if people affected by the Pope’s LGBT-negative strikes could personally tell him how he is making a lot of people feel then maybe he’ll heed to our call, at the very least for dialogue about these pressing matters.
Thank you very much for your steadfast effort to further our cause.
William titled his email “Simple (or simplistic?) idea for action”. Simple it is, but simplistic it emphatically is not. We know that letter writing campaigns achieve results - for our opponents. It was intensive lobbying to the CDF that twice contributed to invitations to the theologian Professor Tina Beattie being withdrawn, and it has been an intensive letter writing campaign over many years that ultimately forced Archbishop Vincent Nichols to yield to intense pressure from the CDF, and end the Soho Masses in their present form. Conversely, the English bishops are encouraging Catholics to write to our Members of Parliament to oppose the equal marriage legislation, and more recently to distribute a million preprinted postcards to add to their lobbying efforts. There is no reason whatsoever why the tactic should be the sole preserve of the conservative forces in the Church.
Some years ago, I wrote about an American Catholic, Joseph Gentilini, who has taken on this task, of writing to American bishops (all of them, one at a time) as his personal contribution to our struggle. I was able to publish Dr Gentilini’s personal story of how he came to this ministry here, and his suggestions on how to write to bishops, here. has I have also heard from other readers who have written to their local bishops. I am not aware of anything formally organized in what William describes as a “movement” in this regard, but there’s no real need for structure. For the convenience of those who would like to take up the suggestion, I offer below a list of addresses for some relevant departments in the Vatican, and (for English readers), contact details for the bishops of England and Wales – all adapted from the helpful list provided at Pro Ecclesia et Pontifice, who have been so effective in waging a constant war of letters to Rome, in opposition to LGBT Catholics and the Soho Masses. Let us take up their own weapons, against them.
I am aware that the list as published by PEEP is already a little out of date. I will check and update it as soon as I can.
Writing to Rome
Please play your part to help turn around the desperate situation in this country. Remember when reporting abuses and dissent to Rome, keep letters factual and as brief as possible, giving places and dates where appropriate and enclosing any supporting documentary evidence where possible.
Send to His Holiness Pope Benedict XVI (e-mail: benedictxvi @ vatican.va) a copy of any letter you write to Rome. If you are in any doubt or need advice, please don’t hesitate to contact me, terence@queerchurch.com, or tel (+44) 755 6051
Address your letters to the following:
On all matters relating to the Church, especially dissent from Catholic doctrine on respect and welcome for all:
Prefect of the Congregation for the Doctrine of Faith
Piazza del S. Uffizio, 11
00120, Vatican City State, Europe
Phone: 011 39 06 6988 3357 Fax: 011 39 06 6988 3409
Secretary: The Most Rev.Angelo Amato, S.D.B.
On matters relating to Bishops:
Prefect of the Congregation for Bishops
Palazzo delle Congregazione
Piazza Pio XII, 10
00120 Vatican City State, Europe
Phone:011 39 06 6988 4217 Fax: 011 39 06 6988 4300
Secretary: Most Rev. Archbishop Francesco Monterisi
On matters relating to the family and marriage:
President of the Pontifical Council for the Family
Piazza S. Calisto, 16
00120 Vatican City State, Europe
Phone: 011 39 06 6988 7322 Fax: 011 39 06 6988 7214
Secretary: Most Rev. Archbishop Josef Clemens pcpl @ laity.va
On matters relating to Seminaries, Catholic Schools and Colleges:
Prefect of the Congregation for Education
Piazza Pio XII, 10
00120 Vatican City State, Europe
United Kingdom:
Contacting the Papal Nuncio for Great Britain:
His Excellency Archbishop Antonio Mennini
54, Parkside, London. SW19 5NE
Writing to Bishops (USA):
Writing to Bishops (United Kingdom):
TO ASSIST YOU WHEN WRITING TO YOUR BISHOP, FIND THE NAME AND ADDRESS HERE, LISTED ALPHABETICALLY BY DIOCESE.
| ARUNDEL AND BRIGHTON | Bishop Kieran Conry, High Oaks, Old Brighton Road North, Pease Pottage, West Sussex RH11 9AJ |
| BIRMINGHAM | Archbishop Bernard Longley, Archbishop’s House, 8 Shadwell Street, Birmingham B4 6EY. |
| BRENTWOOD | Bishop Thomas McMahon, Bishop’s House, Stock, Ingatestone, Essex CM4 9BU. |
| CARDIFF | Most Rev’d George Stack Archbishop’s House, 41-43 Cathedral Road, Cardiff CF11 9HD. |
| CLIFTON | Bishop Declan R.Lang, St Ambrose, North Road, Leigh Woods, Bristol BS8 3PW. |
| EAST ANGLIA | Sede Vacante, The White House, 21 Upgate, Poringland, Norwich, Norfolk NR14 7SH. |
| HALLAM | Bishop John Rawsthorne, 75 Norfolk Road, Sheffield S2 2SZ. |
| HEXHAM & NEWCASTLE | Right Reverend Séamus Cunningham, Bishop’s House, 800 West Road, Newcastle-upon-Tyne NE5 2BJ |
| LANCASTER | Bishop Michael Campbell, Bishop’s Apartment, Cathedral House, Balmoral Road, Lancaster LA1 3BT. |
| LEEDS | Bishop Arthur Roche, Bishop’s House, 13 North Grange Road, Leeds LS6 2BR. |
| LIVERPOOL | Archbishop Patrick Kelly, Archbishop’s House, Lowood, Carnatic Road, Liverpool L18 8BY. |
| MENEVIA | Bishop Thomas Burns, c/o 27 Convent Street Greenhill Swansea SA1 2BX |
| MIDDLESBROUGH | Bishop Terry Drainey, The Curial Office, 50a, The Avenue, Middlesbrough TS5 6QT. |
| NORTHAMPTON | Bishop Peter Doyle, Bishop’s House, Marriott Street, Northampton NN2 6AW |
| NOTTINGHAM | Bishop Malcolm McMahon, Bishop’s House, 27 Cavendish Road East, The Park, Nottingham NG7 1BB. |
| PLYMOUTH | Bishop Christopher Budd, Bishop’s House, 31 Wyndham. Street West, Plymouth, Devon PL1 5RZ. |
| PORTSMOUTH | Bishop Crispian Hollis, Bishop’s House, Edinburgh Road, Portsmouth, Hants. PO1 3HG. |
| SALFORD | Bishop Terence Brain, Wardley Hall, Worsley, Manchester M28 2ND. |
| SHREWSBURY | Bishop Mark Davies, Curial Offices, 2 Park Street South, Prenton, Wirral CH43 4UX. |
| SOUTHWARK | Archbishop Peter Smith Archbishop’s House, St George’s Road, Southwark, London SE1 6HX. |
| WESTMINSTER | Archbishop Vincent Nichols, Archbishop’s House, Ambrosden Avenue, London SW1P 1QJ. |
| WREXHAM | Bishop Edwin Regan, Bishop’s House, Sontley Road, Wrexham. LL13 7EW |
Related articles
- What Are YOU Doing, to Promote LGBT Ministry?
- LGBT Ministry: A Mustard Seed Begins to Sprout.
- “He Sent Me to Give the Good News to the Queers”
- We need Gay Masses beyond Soho
- Speak the Truth in Love: Write Your Bishop.
- Guest Post: “The Ministry of Writing Letters.”
- How to Right the Bishops


I’ve responded extensively to people in my Facebook who post articles regarding the sad clerical messages like the Christmas address. Oftentimes my friends’ reaction is in the light leaving the church because they feel they can’t do anything as lay people. But the Church is yet another mountain that faith, and action can move.
Somebody shared this article about how St. Catherine, herself a lay person and an illiterate one at that, who was able to do something to instill change, not because she is a saint, but because she is a simple person of faith.
http://unamsanctamcatholicam.blogspot.com/2010/04/st-catherine-of-siena-and-gregory-xi.html
Just to clarify…the (new) Bishop of Portsmouth is Bishop Philip Egan. Bishop Crispian Hollis has retired.
Agreed. I did note that the list as I had it from PEEP was now outdated, and knew that Portsmouth was a case in point. I’ve not yet had the opportunity to make the corrections, so thanks for your help.
I have read this blog and can only encourage others to write their bishops (and the pope) about how God has graced our lives as gay persons. In my heart I truly believe it will change the church even if we don’t see it very soon. The Spirit is moving and she will not be stopped.