Liberate Me, Liberate You: The Preferential Option for the Queer

Academic Phillip Berryman has called liberation theology, “an interpretation of Christian faith through the poor’s suffering, their struggle and hope, and a critique of society and the Catholic faith and Christianity through the eyes of the poor.”1

Gay liberation was and continues to be for many, a movement urging gay people to be open about their sexual identity, in order to take away the myths and desegregate gay lives from those of straight people.

They share a common word; liberation. The Oxford English Dictionary tells us that the word is a noun meaning, “the act of setting someone free from imprisonment, slavery, or oppression; release:”2 Imprisonment, slavery and oppression, all three of these words describe the status of many gay people today even in our own country, the UK. The eponymous closet is simply too safe to disregard completely for some.

As Gutiérrez says in the ‘Theology of Liberation’3 “In the past, concern for social praxis in theological thought did not sufficiently take into account the political dimension.” As Gutiérrez points out here, scholarly interest in how theology informs how we respond to others hasn’t considered the political factors that shape our everyday lives. This is even more so when we consider gay liberation.

In light of this, it might be easy to dismiss theological comment upon gay, and LGBT, identity and lives as unresponsive and indeed openly hostile. The rhetoric used by some clergy and certainly by the majority of hierarchical clergy, i.e. bishops and higher, has done nothing to endear gay people to their cause and has caused some deep divisions in outlook, significantly perhaps in the US, where the disconnect between lay Catholic and higher clergy is very apparent.4

But it is theology that may well turn the tide in the wider church, and it is only theology that will inform a change of heart in those who hold it dear, such as the Holy Father himself.

Despite Benedict’s apparent disregard for liberation theology’s sound scriptural grounding, it has still worked itself into the fabric of the church over the years and is now loosely the standard descriptor for how the church responds to the issue of poverty.5

A phrase that Gutierrez used to great affect is ‘we drink from our own well’. What on earth does this mean? And how does it liberate LGBT people from the bonds of heteronormative ascendency? When we look at our own actions within the social fabric of our country, or countries, do we see our liberation being played out by ourselves, or by others? Are we defined by the actions of others?

A favourite statement of mine, and one I often ignore, is ‘Don’t let others define your own happiness.’ Is that what we do?

The political fight for LGBT rights is not over by a long shot, and yet within our own population dynamic, we are letting go of the political. Take Pride parades. Once upon a time they used to be a vocal statement about who we were, what we wanted and how we wanted our lives to be recognised. As Peter Tatchell has pointed out, this is no longer the case in the majority, as they have now become commercialised exponents of what Tom Robinson termed ‘Glad to be gay’.

Antithetical to this, although still filling the entertainment need in our sub-culture, are Pride parades around the world. In Israel, where the ultra-orthodox gather to throw stones at us; in Eastern Europe, where neo-NAZIs gather to try and beat us up, aided and abetted by the police; in South and Latin America, where our very existence is dependent on avoiding the gangs with murder on their mind, again, all too often aided and abetted by the police, who significantly take a leading role in LGBT murders in some instances. Where do we, in the so-called developed and Western world stand in relation to these, our oppressed kin overseas? Do we offer our own lives in testimony to their sufferings, to their wounds, or do we do our best to ignore the problems and celebrate the colourful diversity in Pride around the world?

If liberation is to mean anything, it has to mean we stand with others, less fortunate than ourselves, with our political and economic leverage and our happy and carefree Pride parades, we have to feel what they suffer. That is where the preferential option for the queer comes in. Where we can drink from our own wells, take our own lives, identities and pride, and use it to focus on those who suffer unlike anything we can possibly experience.

We all suffer, to some extent. My grievances, my wounds are not the same as yours, but we both suffer in equal measure to our experiences. We may not be killed for who we are, maybe, we may not fear the knock or tap on the shoulder from a hooded gunman/police officer, but we suffer. Bullying and harassment kills as much as gunshot as does. It kills us physically, and it kills us emotionally, turning our souls into bleak harbours of terror.

We must use this, drink of it, to inform our fight for the liberation of all LGBT people everywhere. Until we can look inwards and recognise the suffering in each of us for what it is, we cannot begin to feel, empathise, with those who suffer everywhere.

We have a long and glorious history of ignoring problems in our own cultures, until they get so big, they smother us. Take apart the defensive walls and try to manage the oppressions we feel, turn them to a good use. Liberation. Liberation from our own self-imposed bonds, liberation from cultural bonds, liberation from self-interest and towards an active empathy for those who suffer in ways we can only imagine. Take our own suffering and link it, through positive action and a definite will with the suffering of those in less accepting/tolerant countries.

Peter Tatchell took to the streets in Moscow6. He stood side by side with LGBT people in a banned parade, with the missiles of the extremists raining down, and the batons of the police uncovered. He knows what a preferential option for the queer means.

We all don’t need to go to such lengths, indeed many of us simply cannot afford to, but we can make a stand for our kin here and now. Take back Pride and put it to use for what it was initially meant for; a change of political will. As LGBT Christians it is our duty to stand up for others who are suffering. Christ tells us as much, as do the Prophets of the Hebrew bible.

Look at the parable of the good Samaritan. Is that you? Seeing a foreigner being hurt and going to their aid, or do you do as the Pharisee did and walk on by, blissfully ignoring the pain of others, so that your life may remain trouble free. A preferential option for anyone other than ourselves means we must, I repeat must, put ourselves out, remove our cloak of comfort and give it to another more in need than we. Don’t ignore your own suffering, or of those around you in your immediate culture, but to be so narrowly defined by compassion that you only care for your immediate neighbour is not the Christian way. Cast your cloak wide and stand with those whose own dominant culture is not only alien to you, but is killing them.

References

  1. Berryman, Phillip, Liberation Theology: essential facts about the revolutionary movement in Latin America and beyond (1987)
  2. liberation“. Oxford Dictionaries. April 2010. Oxford University Press. 10 January 2012 .
  3. Gutiérrez, Gustavo, A Theology of Liberation: History, Politics, and Salvation (2001)
  4. New Poll Shows Strong Catholic Support for Gay Rights (Religion Dispatches)
  5. Compendium of the Social Doctrine of the Church, paragraphs 182-184.
  6. Moscow police collude with neo-Nazis
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  • Mario

    Thank you for your article. It was well written which made it easy
    to read.  There is definitively passion in your writing and that
    is always good.  

     

    There is a lot that disturbed me, for example the idea that pride
    parade needs to be taken back. I love it.  I got to say, you do not hold
    back and I appreciate that.

     

    Pride
    parade (pride) exists for the very reasons that your thought exemplifies:
    intolerance to people’s expression.  I mean I have to give you credit for
    actually admitting  you want to not only reform the church, those
    who discriminate but you also want to reform the LGBTQ movement.
     Most people hint at it but never go as far to say it.  You take
    risks, and I like that.  However, to reform pride based on what you think
    it should be is to squelch the expression of others and that is totally against
    what we all stand for (as a group, anyway) and is counterproductive. 

     

    Your
    reference to the fact that somehow pride has diminished and is commercialized
    like Christmas in first world countries doesn’t speak of your personal
    experience is speaks of your bias.  I said it once and I will say it
    again:  Pride often goes to support DIRECTLY non-profits which give back
    to the community… so yes, it is about making money too… money to given to our
    community services groups.  Since I work
    at my local Gay and Lesbian Center I am directly involved with Pride since it
    finances much of the support we provide our community throughout the year. Of course, Pride does a lot of other things too… Pride costs A LOT of money to even host let alone organize.  The city fees are tremendous.  Price has to have a platform that appeals to people so we can get them to support us… so, yes… vendors do make money.  Sometimes the cost is so considerable they ask for donations at the entrance…  I am sure you partake of this business model (like at your church) elsewhere in your society… why can’t Pride?

     

    Pride is
    about inclusion NOT segregation: Everyone has a voice.  Sometimes, in your article you seem
    to express more of a right wing intolerance.

     

    The
    second issue I have is with this idea that the danger in second world
    countries is somehow NOT the climate here in first world countries and that somehow
    our Pride celebration (which is meaningless for you now) somehow exemplifies
    our indifference to suffering elsewhere… that is my general impression.

     

    I really
    do take exception with this impression that somehow people in the west don’t
    suffer like people elsewhere.  Once
    again, you speak from bias and not experience. 
    Here is Sacramento, our kids and our adults in our community undertake
    personal danger just walking the street, they are physically, mentally abused
    by family and their church.  They lose
    jobs and become homeless.  If they are
    homeless, they are preyed upon.

     

    It is shocking
    on one hand that you say everyone’s suffering is equal and then take it back and separate
    the suffering in to your legitimate categories. 
    Well, I am on the streets here in Sacramento.  I work in public security stationed out of
    our Gay and Lesbian Center.  We do a lot
    when on duty on the street including hugging and greeting those who have been
    beaten for being who they are while walking down the street and listening to
    how grateful people are to know we are here to help them.  I listen to the stories and assist our gay
    homeless and our homeless children.  We
    see the intolerance, the violence first hand… you know the stuff you cannot
    read in articles on the internet.

     

    I guess
    my final issue is your stance on suffering. 
    I am left with the general impression that you believe as Christians we
    are called to assist all those who suffer to help end suffering.  I think you are wrong.  Suffering has a purpose and that purpose
    often has a something very serious to teach the sufferer… or a nation. Sometimes that lesson is critical to their wellbeing.  Often suffering is a natural consequence of
    their actions.  Taking it upon yourself
    to get involved without careful consideration and understand could mean interrupting what God
    is trying to do in their life for them.

     

    Am I
    saying, don’t assist someone who is ill, or beaten, or in a car accident… don’t give the person your coat… No, let’s
    not take this to extremes.  Can I
    personally get involved and change a foreign country’s political climate so their LBGTQ
    do not get beaten, that is unlikely and unreasonable…  besides I got things at home I need to
    address.  Does that mean I don’t care…
    far from it!  

    Do you hand money to every
    beggar you see? You shouldn’t. 

     

    Peace,

    M

  • Bart

    Well said, Jenni! My anger at the Catholic Church is precisely this: that we as a church (or at least those in the hierarchy) are looking the other way, if not actively cooperating with our oppressors in certain cases. Take the US as an example, and the marriage of convenience between the Catholic Church hierarchy and the religious right).

  • http://queeringthechurch.com/ Terence Weldon

    Thanks, Jenni. There’s a great deal of content in here worth chewing over: the links between gay liberation and liberation theology, the importance of Gutierrez’s “drink from our own wells”, the recognition that it is theology that will inform the change of heart in the church, and the politics of pride, including the importance of solidarity with others – subgroups of the broad LGBT community, and with our counterparts elsewhere.

    This is far too much to respond to in a single comment. I am particularly interested in the intersection of gay liberation and liberation theology, and how this has led to gay liberation theology – much of this goes to the heart of the purpose of this site, and how I hope it might develop. But that’s a big subject of its own, which I will not attempt to go into here.

    All I want to discuss for now, is the issue of Pride parades. I agree completely that in their origin, their motivation and point was political – (I think, without checking) they were even called “Gay liberation marches” rather the modern “Pride”. I also agree that in other parts of the world, they retain a strong political focus, and that we need greater solidarity with people under stronger political pressure and persecution than ourselves. In Western Europe, North America and Australia, they have become commercialised, party time. 

    Where I part from you, is in posing this as an either / or situation. Your post begins with a discussion of “liberation”, but ignores one important aspect of liberation, which is especially relevant to our community – internal liberation, from the self-hatred of internalized homophobia. British / American pride parades have lost much of the original political focus because the urgency of the early political persecution has dissipated. We still have many political battles that need to be won, but there gains have been such that these can now be waged by more conventional means. 

    One battle that cannot be won politically, is internal – in two senses. There is the battle against our internalized homophobia, and battles to achieve greater respect and acceptance of the diversity within out community. There is too much disdain and judgementalism by some of us against others. In my own group, I have often heard gay men speak disparagingly or with offensive terms about lesbians, drag queens, trans people, Sm/ leathermen, and other LGBT groups, and about “Christians” outside the community.

    I believe that participation in Pride parades helps us to overcome our own self-doubts, and improve mutual understanding within the community – and so even if no longer “political” in the original sence, they continue to serve an important political, liberating purpose, as well as offering great entertainment. 

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